๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ ๐ ๐๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ Misleading!
Updated: Apr 14, 2022

The patriarchal has led us to believe that if you are not a strong woman you cannot be successful.
But first, how do you define the strong woman?
๐Are you the woman who fixes everything?
๐Are you the woman who takes on a lot and hardly seeks help?
๐Are you the woman who shouldnโt feel disappointed because you can handle it?
๐ Are you the woman that is afraid of risking relationships or mending relationships with all the vulnerability that it takes?
๐Do you think you shouldnโt be vulnerable when you are almost at breaking point, instead you cry alone in the shower?
If you are that woman, are you living a true #versionofyourself or are you living someone elseโs version of you?
How comfortable is that?
See I have been that woman and it worked for me for a while.
But it also got me to almost breaking point.
Because this is what happens when we confuse #strongwoman with being the hard-knock girl who toughs it out at all costs without showing that things are hard.
๐๐ก๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ โ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐งโ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ. ๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ฐ๐ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐๐ฌ๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ.
This kind of strong woman can create success at work but fail at relationships. If you want true success in all areas of your life, this is not the strong woman you want to be.
It is exhausting!
If you want to be that influential strongwoman this is how you want to show up!
โ You want to be a strong woman from authenticity.
โ The one who leads with emotional courage and therefore is able to influence others to positive growth.
โ You want to embrace your own vulnerability.
โ You want to own up to your own mistakes without fear of being judged.
โ You do not wear yourself out (listen, this is possible!!!).
โ You do not stress over what other people think about you.
โ You embrace your growth without beating yourself up for the mistakes you have made in your past.
๐๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐๐ค๐ ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐๐ ๐จ๐ง ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ โ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐งโ, ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ฆ๐๐ซ๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ง๐๐ฐ ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐๐ซ, ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ฆ๐.
I will be back with how you can become that strong woman and, in the meantime, if you desire to be an authentic strong woman you may need to find the courage to seek help outside of you.
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