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  • Janet Nambi

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ƒ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐€ ๐’๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐  ๐–๐จ๐ฆ๐š๐ง ๐‚๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ž Misleading!

Updated: Apr 14


The patriarchal has led us to believe that if you are not a strong woman you cannot be successful.


But first, how do you define the strong woman?


๐Ÿ“ŒAre you the woman who fixes everything?

๐Ÿ“ŒAre you the woman who takes on a lot and hardly seeks help?

๐Ÿ“ŒAre you the woman who shouldnโ€™t feel disappointed because you can handle it?

๐Ÿ“Œ Are you the woman that is afraid of risking relationships or mending relationships with all the vulnerability that it takes?

๐Ÿ“ŒDo you think you shouldnโ€™t be vulnerable when you are almost at breaking point, instead you cry alone in the shower?


If you are that woman, are you living a true #versionofyourself or are you living someone elseโ€™s version of you?


How comfortable is that?


See I have been that woman and it worked for me for a while.


But it also got me to almost breaking point.


Because this is what happens when we confuse #strongwoman with being the hard-knock girl who toughs it out at all costs without showing that things are hard.


๐“๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ โ€˜๐Ÿ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐š๐งโ€™ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐›๐ž๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ฌ. ๐–๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐ฆ๐š๐ฌ๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฐ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ.

This kind of strong woman can create success at work but fail at relationships. If you want true success in all areas of your life, this is not the strong woman you want to be.


It is exhausting!


If you want to be that influential strongwoman this is how you want to show up!


โœ…You want to be a strong woman from authenticity.

โœ…The one who leads with emotional courage and therefore is able to influence others to positive growth.

โœ…You want to embrace your own vulnerability.

โœ…You want to own up to your own mistakes without fear of being judged.

โœ…You do not wear yourself out (listen, this is possible!!!).

โœ…You do not stress over what other people think about you.

โœ…You embrace your growth without beating yourself up for the mistakes you have made in your past.


๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐š๐ค๐ž ๐š ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ง๐œ๐ž ๐จ๐ง ๐ ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ โ€œ๐Ÿ๐š๐ฅ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ž๐ง๐ฌ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐  ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐š๐งโ€, ๐ฐ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ž ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ซ๐š๐œ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ง๐ž๐ฐ ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฐ๐ž๐ซ, ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฌ๐ก๐š๐ฆ๐ž.

I will be back with how you can become that strong woman and, in the meantime, if you desire to be an authentic strong woman you may need to find the courage to seek help outside of you.


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